Emo played role U.K. teen's suicide, authorities surmise

A 13-year-old U.K. girl recently hanged herself, "believing her death would impress fellow followers of the 'emo' movement," the U.K. Telegraph reports. According to the article, Hannah Bond, who went by the nickname "Living Disaster" hanged herself in her bedroom right after telling her parents "I want to kill myself." Her parents dismissed the comment, but an hour later found her hanging an inch off the ground in her room.  She left a note, but the article doesn't detail what was written.  It seems the best explanation investigators have offered thus far is that emo is to blame for her death.

 

"She had secretly chatted to 'emo' followers online all over the world, talking about death and the glamorisation of hanging and speaking about 'the black parade' - a place where 'emos' believe they go after they die. She had even scratched her wrists in a form of self-harm often seen as a form of initiation into the popular fashion and lifestyle fad followed by young people who dress in black like their older “Goth” crowd.  On her page on Bebo, the online networking site, she told friends with names like Sam Suicide, that she was obsessed with the American band My Chemical Romance, who hit number one with their last album The Black Parade. "

 

The article goes on to give a typical daily newspaper exploration of the "emo movement":

 

"Emo, which stands for 'emotional, ' is a youth movement based around dark music, dark clothing and a dark view of the world. It was pioneered in America and emo followers adhere to a host of cult-like conventions to demonstrate dedication to this new wave of pop music and lifestyle. The emo brand of music sounds much like indie or rock, but it takes its unique name from the emotional lyrics and melancholy themes.  While most fans simply enjoy the music and dress, others take their fascination to a sinister level. They indulge in self-harming and become obsessed with death and suicide."

 

Remember when this was called goth and emo meant going to a Promise Ring/Texas Is the Reason double bill?

[Telegraph]

 

 

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May 8, 2008 at 6:11 p.m.

"'the black parade' a place where 'emos' believe they go after they die."

ahahahahahahahahahahahaha

May 8, 2008 at 6:11 p.m.

Sounds like thinning out the herd.

May 8, 2008 at 9:30 p.m.

Way to go mom and dad for getting the message. "I'm going to kill myself tonight" Thats nice honey, now go to bed and we'll see you in the morning.

May 8, 2008 at 9:30 p.m.

Its not the music that pushed her to do this its her parents parenting. If they paid any attention to what she as saying they could have prevented this girl's death.

I should know because i listen to My Chemical Romance all the time and if anyone with brains actually paid attention to this band they would have notice that they actually hate emo, do not consider themselves emo, are against suicide and self harm and that they love everyone, they have never encouraged self harm, and they never will.

And if you have the brains to actually research this before you start typing then you should know that the parents should have paid closer attention to what their daughter was saying....It THEIR FAULT she DIED...NOT THE MUSICS!!!!!!

May 8, 2008 at 11:09 p.m.

yeah Shanca, it's the parents' fault. don't insult free will.

I hear ya Jeff. A little American Football and The Gloria Record. Maybe some Owls and Bedhead? Those were the days when bands like Death Cab and Low were called emo...probably because their lyrics had more depth and emotion than any of the emo tag-ons today.

May 9, 2008 at 12:58 a.m.

Jeff Skruck is right: the label emo has been perverted by the media in the last decade. All of these Black Parade bands are something else entirely.

May 9, 2008 at 7:58 a.m.

i havent listneed to MCR for about 3 years now and I have never had the thought to kill my self or even self harm,
and i dont think MCR are all about getting little tennagers to kill themselves

it says that she had scrathes on her arms
so her friends and family should have seen that as a cry for help

the black parade is about a man dying of cancer so i havent a clue where people have got the idea that it is a place where you go when you die.

initiation into the emo group
and to think that these people have an education

what are we going to be seeing next
little 11 years old smoking and drinking and hurlin abuse at someone so they can 'initaite'in to the Chav grou`p?

and yeah her friends might have names with the word suicide in it but dont you think that they are only doing it to impress there friends online?!

so how come they havent blamed bebo and just MCR

May 9, 2008 at 7:58 a.m.

unfortunately reporting of this has taken a very sad time in the lives of a lovely family and used emo to cite a worldwide reaction at the lack of parenting. the parents are not blaming emo or MCR, and the media have very cleverly used one remark to spark fury. brilliant spin and great reactions - but not the truth. i knew hannah. i know her parents. a girl has taken her life, and her parents will live the rest of theirs regretting not paying more attention to what they thought was a teenage tantrum about not being allowed to stay overnight at a place they didn't know with a boyfriend at the age of 13. teenagers aren't easy and a lot of them make remarks about death - i certainly did. her mum and dad already have had to live every day since in despair that they didn't behave differently.

may she rest in peace, may those that have lost her find some in the days ahead... and may the world not persecute two loving parents who had little sign that their popular, energetic and outgoing daughter who they thought they were protecting was going to leave their worlds changed forever.

May 9, 2008 at 7:58 a.m.

Emos march the Black Parade when they die...ROFL.
I've seen a couple of kids on the bus showing each other their scars, telling each other how 'emo' they are. I don't hv anything against the music or the style, but I think some Emo kids get the point all wrong. Cutting yourself isn't cool.

The parents??? Erm...Bit daft, they are.

May 9, 2008 at 10:31 a.m.

My God. That's so.... stupid. What a martyr.

May 9, 2008 at 12:12 p.m.

this is god dam bull emos gt nout to do wit self harm or suicide

May 9, 2008 at 12:15 p.m.

This reminds me of Columbine, when the media blamed Goth and Industrial music for the impetus behind the students opening fire. It's amazing that this can still happen--the easy casting of blame on something that is probably quite unrelated to the reasons behind the act. Whether you are an emo hater or not, it's still sad that a 13 year old felt pained enough to take her own life.

May 9, 2008 at 12:35 p.m.

i listen to hiphop and not once have i ever wanted to shoot somebody or hump a girl with big butt and boobs. when i listen to professor murder, i sometimes wish i joined my high school marching band. is that what the article is talking about? i don't really get the correlation.

May 9, 2008 at 2:25 p.m.

If people are stupid enough to take bullsh*t trends to an extreme let them do what they like.

But blaming bands or implying they're the pipers to this army of idiots is just a pathetic method of blaming someone other than family and friends for lack of observation and an inability to be there for someone who clearly wasn't doing so great.

But at the end of the day a life is in the hands of the person it belongs to.

I'm not going to get myself down over some girl who was too dipsh*t to get the lyrics to the majority of MCR tracks are about LIVING your life.

This whole Emo thing is sh*te.

Get a grip people, you're bringing the entire human race down.

May 9, 2008 at 2:25 p.m.

really lala? not even the humping part?

May 9, 2008 at 2:26 p.m.

this is just stupid, the person that wrote this has oviously just written it straight off, without reaserching the wrod emo, and certainly not what my chemical romance stand for. and frank, were i ive, that is already happening, what is society coming to, i listen to mcr all the time, is my favourite time,and i dont hear death and suicide, i hear persiverance and showing who your are, wherever you are, whoever you are.

May 10, 2008 at 8:35 a.m.

Wow, talk about blaming someone from a distance. MCR music does talk about death, but not about suicide, more of a celebration of life and those who are important to us. I listen to MCR. I also think about death in the sense that I want to live a life of happiness and enjoy and be grateful for the great life I have. I will never know how and when I will die, but it won't be self inflicted.

This girl had problems large than we may know. Mental health is a fragil thing. I can't see cutting or scaring yourself as something an average teenager would do. It's someone with a lot of interal hate, conflict, and pain.

May 10, 2008 at 2:18 p.m.

I’m a school nurse & you wouldn’t believe how many of the “emo” kids cut. They call themselves “emo,” by the way. We’ve sent at least a dozen kids to the local psychiatric hospital for self-injury and suicidal ideation just during this school year. About 90% of those kids were self identified “emo” kids. Sadly, it did not surprise me when the news broke that that 13-year-old girl killed herself in the UK. I really feel terrible for her family! I was pretty confused about the whole “emo” thing until one of the kids showed me the website http://whatisemo.bravehost.com/. Once I saw that site, I understand the issue much better now; please take the time to view this and protect yourself and your loved ones.

May 10, 2008 at 5:02 p.m.

AS YOU CAN NOTICE, THAT'S THE MOST STUPID THING I'VE EVER SEEN! COME ON! I MEAN, I AM NOT AGAINST BEEN SUICIDAL, CUZ' I CONFESS I'VE BEEN TROUGHT THAT, BUT THAT THING ABOUT "THE BLACK PARADE"...GOD! THE MEDIA SERIOUSLY NEEDS SOME HELP!!!

May 10, 2008 at 5:02 p.m.

There is so many people in this world that nature started to their amont by eliminating weak ones by simpli suicide.
This whole world is like a hell pit and anybody who sees to much of it not just a small space aroun him self could be run mad verry quicly.People are just an animals that's all that's the true and agrresiv spiecies.Strong survive weak dies and mostly strong means brainless brute and andybody who feels and sees a little bit more have to finish like that girl.that's not the place for them.Thanks to our parents]:->

May 10, 2008 at 5:03 p.m.

AS YOU CAN NOTICE, THAT'S THE MOST STUPID THING I'VE EVER SEEN! COME ON! I MEAN, I AM NOT AGAINST BEEN SUICIDAL, CUZ' I CONFESS I'VE BEEN TROUGHT THAT, BUT THAT THING ABOUT "THE BLACK PARADE"...GOD! THE MEDIA SERIOUSLY NEEDS SOME HELP!!!
I DEFINITELY DO NOT BLAME MCR!
YOU ALREADY HAVE GROWN UP, SO YOU CAN DO THAT KIND OF S**T BY YOURSELF, BESIDES, GERARD WAY (MCR SINGER) HAS SAID THAT BEING SUICIDAL IS "BULL S**T", SO I DON'T BELIEVE THEY MADE THIS YOUNG GIRL KILL HERSELF

May 11, 2008 at 5:02 p.m.

yeah, i'm speachless, you can't force blame onto a band it's a load of bull. I've red the artical on it. And i'm still speachless 'cause it's still a load of bull to me, ad i've been there, and i'm a huge an of MCR but it was neaver because of that

May 12, 2008 at 2:10 p.m.

"'the black parade' a place where 'emos' believe they go after they die."
Bwahahahahahaha. Alright now that I've stopped laughing I can actually comment. It seems they didn't do any good reporting on the individual(bipolar? on medication? social life?) to judge or predicate an issue of bad parenting. The article took one slightly interesting topic, be it fact or fiction, and expanded it ridiculously for wider appeal. So once again, since we don't know what all happened to make any educated social commentary:

"'the black parade' a place where 'emos' believe they go after they die."
ahahahahahahahahahahahaha

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